" Looking for Mr Right "

First, please promise yourself you will never again become exclusive with ANY man until he fully commits to you.

That means you date other men up until he proposes. You don't sleep with anyone else, but you go on coffee dates, lunch dates, out for fun, etc.

This will keep you sane and feeling balanced. It will keep your self-esteem up, because you will be able to practice RECEIVING attention and affection from other men.

You'll be able to feel good just by noticing men everywhere being interested in you.

The moment you shut the "flirty" part of you down (let's call that part "Flirty Girl"), your man can feel it.

And when he feels that you've shut down that part of you that attracts other men to you, you shift the Energy Exchange between you in a way that pretty much PUSHES HIM AWAY.

I know that sounds weird.

You'd think he'd be HAPPY that you're now all content with him and focused on him. You'd think he'd feel relaxed now, and able to trust you.

But that's just not how it works.

Trust comes from a deeper place that has to do with YOUR VULNERABILITY.

It has absolutely nothing to do with you shutting your sexy, flirty self down out in the world.

So, this is good news!

If you've been thinking that he'll trust you more if you shut yourself down out there, you've been making a mistake that you can quickly change - and truly help yourself!

What actually happens is this: The moment he becomes your "one and only," without his asking you (and remember - this is important - he has to ask you NOT in a "boyfriend" sort of way, but in a "wedding ring" way), he feels pressured.

And as he feels pressured, all your insecurities and old patterns start to fight against your common sense.

He almost instantly starts to move backward, away from you.

And that kicks in your inner nasty voices and feelings of need and desperation, and so you automatically (if you're anything like I was and like most of us women are instinctively), you feel compelled to move toward him.

That looks like Leaning Forward when you're talking to him, paying way too much attention to how he feels and what he's doing, and trying to manage to see him and talk to him as much as possible.

And he can FEEL all this.

And it just sends him away.

It sends him to the Land of "Just Friends."

So what you do now is backtrack.

There are so many things to stop doing and to begin doing that will shift the Energy Exchange back to where it needs to be to reconnect with a man once he's made the "friends" speech.

You'll find it all in my Targeting Mr. Right program. Everything from HOW to be flirty with other men and what to do once you decide to not settle into being a "girlfriend" without a commitment from him.

Take a look at what I've written about the Tool of Circular Dating and why it's the best-kept secret for getting to your Mr. Right quickly and easily:

Rori Raye   (  Kalau sesuai,........ ikut  )